Friday, September 18, 2009

Labeling

Hum...... overhere, what I want to say is not those label that stick on any products which you buy....... What I want to say is labeling a kid or child. Just would like to share something I have heard/learn from others. Just would like to pass on this message/knowledge to my loves one and any readers who read my blog.

I hear this real life story about a few mths back from my Yoga Therapy friend. Actually, I wanted to share this story long ago, but I don't know how to start. Now, I happen to know that she wrote it in her blog. So I think read through her blog yourself would be much more convincing.

But before showing you her blog link, just would like to give you some ideal. My friend is a Yoga Instructor too. She have a chance to observe a 14 years old teenages who is being labeled at home, at school and even at the clinic. What a poor girl.

At school, teachers don't believe she is "normal" student. So her parent also believe the teacher and say she is "abnormal". Now come to therapists, also claimed she is "abnormal".

So what is the reason for her to be so "special"?
The teachers in her school labeled her as a kid with learning and emotional difficulties, and concluded that she was incapable of independence and academic excellence.

Oh...... Because of this reason, she is sent to a therapist for aid. Of course therapist will base on the parent needs to "help" this kid right? So that mean she is a "special" kid right?

Is she really a "special" kids or is she NOT? Must becareful hor.......... "Special" and NOT "special" is just 一线之差。Don't get tricked by it. I don't want to say much overhere as my own opinion might not be yours.

So........ now you read this blog to understand more about this story.......... It can be an awareness for you. It can be a reminder for you....... anything. But what I want to say is believe yourself, believe your kids and believe your fate. When the more you let go......... the world will be viewing differently. (Say easy right! Do it very difficult! I am still doing my best in this, so hope you try too ...... haha......)

The title is "My Young Teacher" on below link:
http://jlindigoflow.blogspot.com/2009_04_01_archive.html

Enjoy your reading.

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